9 years ago today...

I had my second son Markus.  He was born at 8:17 pm in Allentown, Pennsylvania.  My labor with him was such an easy labor I was having a hard time believing that the baby laying in the heater next to me was mine.  

I woke up at 10 am and went to the bathroom and there was quite a bit of blood in the toilet.  I called my drs office and talked to the nurse and she said it might be because I had been checked the day before and she told me to call if there was anymore blood.  Well being that I was pregnant I of course had to pee shortly after getting off the phone with the nurse.  This time when I went to the bathroom there was even more blood.  The nurse told me to come into the drs office so they could check me to make sure everything was ok.  I had been having contractions the whole night but nothing major.  

So off to the drs office I went and they hooked me up to the monitors and I was having steady contractions.  The dr came in and checked me and I was 3 cm dilated, he said he wanted to check my bag of water after that and went to put his hand in there again and my water broke at that exact moment.  It gushed all over the floor but the dr got lucky and none went on him.  

The dr told me to go to the hospital which was about 5 min away and he would see me there shortly.  At this point it is about 2 pm.  We drove to the hospital and I went straight up to Labor and delivery and demanded a shower because I wanted to wash up before everyone went checking me so I could feel clean and not like I just peed myself.  They told me I couldn't take a shower yet, first I had to be monitored for a little while.

I told the nurses that I wanted to make sure I got an epidural with this child since I had my first naturally and I wanted to experience a "pain free" labor.  I was at 4 cm when they checked me and they told me I could have an epidural at any time now and I didn't have to wait till the contractions got bad before getting the epidural.  Well at this point I am barely feeling the contractions so I told them no, no yet.  This was about 3:30 pm.

By about 5 pm the contractions were getting pretty strong where I was practicing my Lamaze breathing so I told them that I wanted the epidural.  They checked me at this point and I was 5 cm dilated.  The anesthesiologist comes in and puts in the epidural and tells me it will take just a few more minutes  and then I will not feel anything.  I get really excited about the epidural and the idea of having a pain free labor but by 6 pm I am feeling some really strong contractions.  I call the nurse in my room and tell her that they all lied to me when telling me the epidural is going to work within minutes because I was still feeling the contractions really strong.  

The anesthesiologist comes back in the room and ups my dose on the epidural and tells me just to wait a few minutes and it should work good then.  So I sit and wait......

At about 6:30-7 pm I was getting pissed off that the damn epidural is not working and I tell the nurse, this epidural does not work!!!  I can feel so much pressure!!!  She asks me...what kind of pressure are you feeling??  I told her I felt like my ass was going to explode.  She decides to check to see how far dilated I am only to discover that I was 10 cm dilated and baby was ready to come.

She calls the dr in and when he came in they see that I wasn't having contractions....they were all gone and had been for awhile by this point.  I tried to tell them when I came in there that with my first child was born my labor stopped when I reached 10 cm and they had to give me potocin at that point to help me along but the dr told me that wouldn't happen again...guess what it did!!!

So I get potocin and they wait till my contractions are nice and strong and by this point it is a little bit after 8 pm.  The nurse tells me that she wants me to push on my next contraction.  So next contraction comes along and I start to push.  She tells me to stop pushing because she needs to get the dr, the baby is coming right now!!  I stopped pushing right away and she kept telling me to stop and  I told her I wasn't pushing he was just sliding out.  Well she runs to get he dr and he was in the room in less than a minute and tells me not to push.  I was yelling at this point telling them not to let my baby hit the floor and the dr is trying to get his gloves on.  

Markus Gabriel made his entrance into this world by barely being caught on his way out weighing in at 9 lbs 9 oz and 22 inches long.  He was beautiful and perfect in every way!!  He was the perfect baby just like all my boys have been.  Sleeping through the night from the start and Markus was always happy and smiling at everything and everyone.  Still to this day he melts everyones hearts he meets.  

Not Me Monday

So I love reading MckMama and she has this great game that she does every Monday called Not Me Monday. Basically you write all the things that you did but write as if you did not do these things. So this Monday I am going to play along :o)

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by href="http://www.mycharmingkids.net">MckMama. You can head over to href="http://www.mycharmingkids.net">her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week. Here is a link to her blog so you can all read her blog and play along with the game.

So here goes nothing....

Last Thursday I did not go to TCC to take an assessment test in ESL (English Second Language) so that I can start school in the fall, nope not me. I also did not get a test question that had a picture of a woman reading a book and I was not asked what the woman was doing because that is something a kindergartner would know. Nope not me!!! I do not feel like I aced that test because it was ridiculous. Nope not me!!

This weekend we did not eat out both nights because I was too lazy to go to the grocery store to buy food.....oh not not me, never me!! I also did not let my house get turned upside down because I was too lazy to clean it. Nope not me!!! I did not rush around here like a mad woman cleaning this house up this morning because my floors were sticky and my counter tops were stained red. Nope not me!!!

Last night I did not go to a chinese restaurant to eat with the family for Mothers day and get pissed off when the bill arrived because we paid double what we usually pay at this same restaurant. I did not call the waitress over to find out why the bill was so high only to be told it was because there was a Mother's day special and that was why the bill was so high??? I did not walk out of there telling Dewayne that I would never eat there again because they cheated us because it was Mother's day. Nope not me, never me. I never get mad when I get charged double what I usually pay and don't say anything about it. No not me!!!

Ok so that is it for my Not me Monday. Hope you all enjoyed it and maybe I will start doing that some more. Also I need to upload the pics that were taken of us at the Beach while my Mamma and Amma were here. And I need to be better at blogging, I have been sucking lately and I know it.

Have a great Monday everyone.

Exciting things to come....

In two weeks my Mamma and Amma (Grandmother) are coming to visit!!!  My Mamma is staying for 11 days and my Amma is staying for a month :o)  My Amma is not going to be here with me the whole month but she will be here longer than my Mamma and then my Amma is going to see her friend in Ohio.  I am so excited!!!!  I have not had any family here since January of 2008 and I am definitely do for some family visit!!!  

My friend Rachel is going to watch my daycare kids for some of the days for me so we can go do some shopping and running around.  That is so wonderful because every time I have had someone here to visit me I have always had to work the whole time.  

Also we are going to Chicago for Easter and I can not wait to see Jalen!!!  I miss him so much and I know Dewayne and the boys miss him like crazy too.  We are going to leave here on Thursday next week and come home on Monday.  I am not looking forward to the drive there but I know it will be worth it when we get there.  This is the longest I have gone without going to Chicago since I met Dewayne.  I haven't been there in 13 months!!  Wow!!  I know that Dewayne's family is really excited to see Kobe and the boys too.  They haven't seen Kobe since he was 6 months old and now he is almost 19 months and walking and talking!!!  Hopefully he will be good on the drive there.....he screamed bloody murder on the way home from Chicago last time.  But when we went to Missouri he did really good on the drive there and back and the Chicago trip takes about the same amount of time.  

Well I don't remember if I have written about the orders or not but Dewayne is going to Bahrain.  He will leave here on August 1 and he is going to be there for 1 year :o(  I don't know what we are going to do without him.  It still has not sunk in and I'm sure it wont sink in until it comes closer to go time.  He is getting everything ready with the military now, doing all his check out with medical and dental and everything else he needs to do.  

While Dewayne is gone I am going to go to school.  I have already applied and now all I need to do is go take my placement test.  I am going to wait about a month though and study the hell out of my practice book before I go so I will score well on the test.  The test determines where I stand and I do not want to have to take some refresher courses and have to pay for them out of pocket if I do not have to.  Hopefully I will do good and can go straight to the courses I need to go into nursing.  I have to do about one year of courses before I can start the nursing program because they have so many classes that are required to get into the program.  Well that is ok because that just means I do not have to switch schools halfway through my nursing degree if we get orders somewhere else when Dewayne comes home from Bahrain.  I am really excited about starting school.  I thought about doing some summer classes but I think I am going to wait until fall so I am not swamped with school work the last few months that Dewayne has left at home. 

Ok well enough for now.  I have to go take some Tylenol my head is BOOM BOOMING!!!  That means hurting really bad for those of you who did not get that :o)  Have a great Thursday everyone.

Tired

I didn´t go to sleep until 2 am last night.  I was feeling like sh*t last night, my throat was hurting, head all stuffy and I had such bad body aches.  I was going to be asleep by 10 but Kobe had other things in mind.  He stayed up until after 1 am and by the time I could go to sleep I was so exhausted that I could not fall asleep right away.  Then I almost over slept this morning but thank goodness my good old friend Michele called and woke me up with her good news.  She just got a great job working for the government and she wanted to share her good news with me :o)  Congrats honey bunches....I am so happy for you!!!

Now I am waiting for my chinese food to get here and I am going to pig out.  Then with a full belly I am going to get in my bed, watch a little bit of TV and then off to bed I go.

I have a Drs appointment in the morning for a consult to get my wisdom teeth pulled out.  They are bothering me so much and it is about damn time they come out.  Hopefully I will get them out ASAP and be done with it and never have to worry about my damn wisdom teeth again.  

Ok people...I am gonna go now cause my food should be here any minute :o)

Good Night!!

2 year wedding anniversary

Today Dewayne and I have been married for 2 whole years!!!  I  can not believe how fast this two years has gone by and yet on the other hand it seems like it was just yesterday that we got married.  The day we got married we went to the Court house with the boys and got married in some guys office...it was actually really funny cause the way the guy talked (forever and ever and ever and ever...in an Eeyore voice).  After we got married we went home and enjoyed the day together and that night we ordered Chinese food.  Last year to celebrate our 1st wedding anniversary we stayed in and ordered Chinese again (we were really broke :o).  This year we are going to go out to eat and enjoy the hell out of our day.  We are going to a place called the Melting Pot, they serve fondue type meals.  Everyone that goes there has something good to say about it.  Then we might go to the movies, depending on the time and mood.  

Ok off to go enjoy my husband and boys.  Have a great Sunday :o)

Catching up on the last two weeks

Dewayne running his 40 yard dash in 4.2 seconds

Dewayne preparing to run the 40 yard dash

Here is Kobe watching his Daddy try out for the DC Armour at 5 am.

I was going to write this last week and never seemed to get the time to write it.  

We went to DC on Friday the 16th for Dewayne to try out for an Arena Football team in Washington DC called the DC Armour.  He was asked to come for a personal try out because he had missed the actual team try outs.  Well he did so good, including running the 40 yard dash in 4.2 seconds that the Coach asked him to join the team right there on the spot.  YIPPY!!!!!

So now Dewayne has to go to DC every weekend for football practice and then in the end of February he is going to be moving up there to play for the team.  The season runs from March through the end of June.  I am so excited for him, he did so good and the coach was so happy with him.  

Then on my birthday January 19th I had a BBQ and we had a bunch of friends come over.  It was a great day and I am so happy that I got to share my day with my friends!!!  Thank you all for coming and sharing my day :0)

Ok besides that we have not done much else this last week.  Kobe has had a very bad cold and now Dewayne has it too.  Poor things they get every little pest that goes around.  

Ok so now off to watch the kids.  Have a great Tuesday everyone!!!

President Barack Obama

I am so proud to live in America today.  Words can not describe how I felt as I watched the Inauguration of President Barack Obama.  I sat here with tears rolling down my cheeks thinking about what this means for my own children.  America now has a BLACK President and hopefully that means no more racism and no more prejudice in this great country.  I am so thankful and so proud to have lived to see this moment.  

I don't have the right words to say to express how I feel today.  I hope President Obama will do a wonderful job in office and make us all proud....I know he will do a wonderful job.  We now need him to get in office and stop this war and help the worlds economic crisis.  

This past weekend Dewayne, Kobe and I went to Washington DC for Arena football try outs for Dewayne and after the try outs we went sight seeing in DC.  We took pics of the White house, Pentagon, Arlington cemetery and more.  It was wonderful to see all of this only days before the Obamas moved to DC.  I am going to post the pics that we took and then I am going to write another blog in regards to this weekend.  

Again let me say how proud I am today of this great country for making this huge step.